Learn Hypnosis: Seduction Secrets – The Secret Source of Most High Level Seduction Tactics

January 2, 2012 By Leave a Comment

 

By the way, How does this relate to hypnosis training?

Very Nicely Actually.

You see all seduction, all dating rituals, all “forms” of attraction are inherently hypnotic. The fact that we don’t “apply” the word or term “hypnosis” to it is irrelevant.

Seduction IS hypnosis.

Hypnosis IS a form of seduction.

I don’t make the rules I just report them.

This particular video is safely tucked away in a really cool new conversational hypnosis training website at http://www.stealth1.secrets-101.com

The owner has about 30 FREE Hypnosis Videos that he’s put together that you might want to check out. Some of them Are Really Good.

Others are just plain outstanding!

Now… On to our regularly scheduled hypnosis post.

There is a fundamental Rule of persuasion,

well actually it’s a fundamental rule that governs pretty much any form of human interaction.

The Things We Create Have The Most Power and Influence Over Us!

Seriously, this principle is so powerful and so pervasive, yet so completely overlooked, that it boggles my mind how easy it actually is to hypnotize people without them knowing by simply doing back to them what they are projecting at you.

This is why I spend so much time studying seduction materials...

They give us a true, real-world understanding of hypnotic principles and hypnotic operators that most people who, as bias of their “clinical” or “classical” training. Simply would not pay attention to.

The truth is the most seduction techniques are based in the courtship behaviors that “women” use to attract men to them in the first place.

Now the beautiful part for those interested in attracting the opposite sex, dating and seduction as well as for those looking for “less than sensual” applications of covert and conversational hypnosis is simply this.

Your subjects are most likely blissfully unaware that they are telling you exactly how to hypnotize them into doing what you want.  Just by the very act of how they treat you.

If, of course, you have enough “situational awareness” to recognize what is actually happening.

This all can be distilled back down to the NLP based principle of matching and mirroring and pacing and leading. Which are the primary tenets of most Ericksonian based hypnosis and NLP courses.

Unfortunately for our purposes. While the disciplines of NLP and Ericksonian hypnosis are wonderful for teaching us “about” the principles and of course giving them fancy names.

They don’t help us much out in the real world beyond basic therapy applications.

“yawn” … er I mean…  therapy is okay, but…

How does it really help me get money?

More Dates, etc.

Better Relationships, Even… Dare I say it…

More Sex?

If any of the above mentioned “basic human desires” sounded appealing I’d stay away from the more classical (and somewhat impractical) approaches to learning hypnosis and/or hypnosis training.

You are probably better off trying out something like David Van Arrick’s  S.T.E.A.L.T.H. Hypnosis

David Just Added A new FREE Public Level  with Over Thirty FREE Videos That anyone who wants to learn hypnosis online can log in to and watch.

If you are looking for hypnosis training and conversational hypnosis skills that work in the real world, that are fast, easy to use and fun to learn.

Check Out David’s new Site – I thought it was really cool… but then again. I’m a little biased.

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Why NLP is Wrong? (Very Controversial)

October 28, 2011 By Leave a Comment

One of the things you hear me talk about a lot when we do Masterminds and even in the meet-ups we do here in San Diego is NLP.

People think we’re constantly bagging on NLP and I’m not.

I think NLP is fabulous.

It’s brilliant….

… It’s just wrong.

And it’s not wrong in that the techniques don’t work.

It’s wrong in the sense that the vast majority of people who learn it can’t use it.

Does anybody have any experience in trying to use an NLP style technique out in the real world that didn’t work?

Or it all of a sudden…Or it worked really well in the seminar room  and was kind of cumbersome using it out in the real world?

Okay.

One of the things that I have done a tremendous amount of work in is “How do I make this stuff (NLP,Covert Hypnosis and Conversational Hypnosis) work for me?” and “Who are the people that are actually out there doing it and making the stuff work?”

One of the things that happened; and you have to understand that this goes all the way back to how NLP was actually created), NLP was created from models, right?

Models of Who? Milton Erickson, Virginia Satir, Fritz Perls and each of them had their own style. Right?

Their own system.

Make sense?

Now, those models actually encompassed the  techniques they used right along with the beliefs that they needed in order them work.

How many times does NLP teach you the beliefs you need to make this stuff work?

Do they ever teach you the beliefs you need to make this stuff work?

How much?

How many times does NLP teach you the things you need to make this stuff work?

Do they ever teach you the beliefs you need to make this stuff work?

People Will Say, Well NLP has Presuppositions… right?

Presuppositions are a the concepts in which NLP is based. Right? they are assumptions NLP makes about the way the mind actually works.

But What about the beliefs, the mindset, the frame to go out, and actually have the cajones to use it, first of all.

And the understanding of how to create the frame the makes people want do what your telling them to do.

Anybody here to use ever use an NLP technique without creating a frame around it or anybody here know what a meta-frame is?

For those of you who are watching this at home, or are new to nlp,  a meta-frame is the overall meaning of the interaction.

We going to talk a lot about frames throughout this weekend. But, beliefs aside,

[In Your NLP Training] how much work did they give you… What states did they teach you to go into in order to deliver your NLP techniques?

Mark. Did they teach you any?

Mark: No.

I doubt that it’s relevant, but in my case (unclear) use it in the foundation. I find that perfect frame to make it work

Absolutely. Absolutely, because within that frame it works. K. Your passion is hypnosis and hypnotherapy and I’m cool with that.

But, how many people are frustrated because they go to an NLP class to learn how to do sales with NLP and they learn therapy?

Never happened? How many people go to an NLP class to how to be more socially successful and all they got was therapy?

By and large, the frame that NLP comes from is for what?

Therapy.

That’s right, Therapy. who are, who are the people they [Bandler and Grinder] modeled?

They modeled therapists.

So, while NLP is extremely brilliant in that aspect, there are some things we need to kind of shift.

Some beliefs that we need to address in order to be able to use it in other context.

We need to learn how to work within other frames of reference.

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Covert Persuasion is Used in Politics and Advertising

October 27, 2011 By Leave a Comment

Covert persuasion is used in politics and advertising and if you didn’t know that then stop here and don’t read anymore of this. There is a new show on ABC called the Gruen Transfer that specifically looking at advertising and more or less picking it apart. Advertising is all about persuading others to buy the product or service you want them to. So, underlying all the talk of politics and advertising will be the principles of covert persuasion. Of course they may not call it that but it may come up now and then because covert persuasion is used in politics and advertising. 

“Advertising is about persuasion, and Planet will apply the show’s framework – discussing and illustrating the power of persuasion – to the world of spin, PR, branding and image control.

Transfer customarily considers a product or service – say, sports betting, the carbon tax, toothpaste or bottled water – and examines the advertising strategy surrounding it. Planet will escalate that conversation.

The Gruen Transfer is one of the more remarkable television success stories of recent times. Now comfortably the ABC’s highest-rating program (last week’s penultimate episode averaged 1.4 million, not including iView viewers), it has unequivocally influenced the way we perceive advertising and the tools companies use to persuade us to buy.”

“Deftly hosted by comedian Wil Anderson, Transfer leans on permanent, slightly combative panellists Russel Howcroft and Todd Sampson, and features a rotating roster of agency guests. Howcroft, head of the agency George Patterson Y&R, is a seasoned media performer, having appeared regularly on radio for a decade. And the laconic, Canadian-born Sampson, chief executive of the agency Leo Burnett, has become a star.”

“The show was created by Andrew Denton’s production company, Zapruder’s Other Films, with former Fairfax journalist Jon Casimir, who wondered why an industry worth $500 billion a year globally was not examined more. ”I come from a family that taught me to question everything,” Casimir says. ”I’m contrary in nature and I don’t really like being told what to do. It seemed obvious that this show should exist.”

“Denton pitched Gruen to Anderson as a show that gave people the skills to understand the advertising industry, as Frontline did for current affairs shows. ”I thought it was a good idea,” Anderson says. ”But then I thought, ‘A show about ads on the ABC … already weird. And with advertising executives … hmmm. Maybe it would get a Q&A-type audience.”’

Politics and advertising are both about covert persuasion

“Anderson, Howcroft and Sampson have become a formidable trio. When it was decided to expand Gruen last year for four episodes centred on the federal election, the ad execs stayed. Casimir says politics has become a subset of advertising. ”We no longer have a political scene, just a system relating to advertising – whether staying on message or controlling branding and positioning. We don’t have government any more, it’s simply 365 days of electioneering.”

”Because there was nothing in that election but spin, we had the perfect tools to unpick it,” Casimir says.

”It’s part of the broader world of communication,” Howcroft says. ”Within the corporations Todd and I work with, there [are] groups dealing with public relations, corporate affairs, design, research and media. However, the techniques used in PR and damage control compared with persuading consumers to buy a product are not much different. ”They are the exact same ones,” Sampson says. ”The difference is, the topics will change. Persuasion is persuasion.”

“A glance at the calendar reveals other subjects to be potentially scrutinised by Planet: President Barack Obama’s November visit, Breast Cancer Awareness Month, Tiger Woods and McHappy Day.

‘This is a creative business,” Sampson says. ”As fast as we think through the techniques being used, new ones are being developed to replace them. That is our job. ”Every day we are learning better ways to persuade people.”

Gruen Planet airs Wednesday night on ABC1.

Theage.com reporting  on the shows main characters and potential subject matter. We wish Gruen Planet the best of luck with their new show and we hope to hear more about how covert persuasion is used in politics and advertising.

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Attorneys Use the Art of Persuasion All the Time

October 25, 2011 By Leave a Comment

Attorneys use the art of persuasion all the time in depositions and trials. In depositions they want to get the person giving the answers to respond the way the attorney wants them to so they can make a stronger case. From the moment they enter the courtroom they are trying to persuade the jury to agree with their version of what happened. The VVDailyPress based in Victorville Ca. reports that this requires a lot of skill and experience which Supervising Deputy District Attorney Britt Imes definitely has and he lectures other attorneys on his techniques.

The art of persuasion is a tool many attorneys use all the time. Photo Courtesy of VVDaillyPress.com

“He said trial is a process — starting with jury selection, then making an opening statement to summarize the case, presenting witnesses and physical evidence, and concluding with a closing argument to explain why jurors should find the defendant guilty.”

“You don’t win or lose a case in the closing argument,” Imes said. Whether it’s a speech or a trial, “it’s how you build a persuasive case as a whole,” he said.

“Just as lawyers can’t win a case with just oratory skills, persuasive presentations need more than dazzling words. They need evidence to prove the point. But usually in trial, the evidence comes in bits and pieces and it’s up to the attorneys to put them together so they make sense to the jurors.”

“There are things that are important and there are things that are not,” Imes said. “Where our oratory skills become important is how we weave these ingredients together. To effectively communicate ideas, Imes suggests a few things.”

“He said humor makes audiences receptive to what he says. Although he doesn’t tell jokes to jurors during a murder trial, he focuses on making them smile in jury selection.”

“He is a big believer in using visual aids to reinforce his speech. Many prosecutors now rely on PowerPoint slides in closing arguments to explain abstract legal concepts.”

“Imes also encourages people to use metaphors and analogies in presentations. To explain the idea of circumstantial evidence to his jury, Imes tells the following story: You find an open jar with the last cookie gone. You look around and find your two kids, one with crumbs on the face.”

“Every time you use that example, I always see that nod in the crowd because every parent has experienced that,” he said.

“But Imes’ biggest strength seems to come from his passion and faith in what he does, making him appear assertive, confident and genuine.

“He shows exactly the way things are. He’s not there to sell snake oil,” fellow prosecutor Robert Brown said. “Our goal is to seek justice, not to dazzle jurors with words. … He absolutely believes in what he does. To me that’s the most effective way to be persuasive.”

I hope this article demonstrates how covert hypnosis and persuasion techniques can be useful in your own life, even if you are not a fancy attorney. You can begin learning covert hypnosis today and just like attorneys, use the art of persuasion all the time. 

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Covert Hypnosis is Only One Form of Persuasion

October 24, 2011 By Leave a Comment

Covert hypnosis is only one form of persuasion. There are many ways to use the sound of your voice, body language, specific words,  touch, and appearance to persuade others to follow your thinking and do what you suggest. The art and science (and it is both) of persuasion calls upon many skills and resources. The article featured today found on ehow.com shows that covert hypnosis is only one form of persuasion that you can learn to bring more confidence and success to your life and to the lives of others.

Covert hypnosis is only one form of persuasion. Public speaking uses several types of persuasion techniques.

 

Getting Someone to Agree With You

“Being able to be persuasive is a skill that is important in the working world and can help you in your personal relationships as well. Persuasiveness is the ability to make someone else agree with what you are saying, whether they are agreeing that a certain product is a good investment or they are agreeing with a personal belief you have.”

“The famous Greek philosopher Aristotle said there are three things you must use to be persuasive: ethos, pathos and logos. Ethos uses trust to convince someone, pathos appeals to a person’s emotions, and logos uses evidence and logic as a means to persuade someone.”

Verbal Techniques

“When you are trying to persuade someone of something, you must talk to them to get them to see your point. There are many verbal techniques you can use to make your point of view seem right and appealing. For instance, using big words makes you seem knowledgeable and therefore right. Other verbal techniques include using a loud, convincing voice, repeating certain phrases or words, interrupting the other person and making sure you get the last word.”

Physical Techniques

“Although you can’t use physical action to make someone listen to your point, you can use subtle physical techniques to persuade someone. For example, standing on a podium when delivering a message makes you seem tall and authoritative, and people are more apt to be persuaded by your words. Other physical techniques include using wide hand gestures or looking people directly in the eyes to establish trust.”

Combination Techniques

“The most effective way to persuade your audience is to use a combination of verbal and physical techniques. The next time you watch a powerful figure deliver a speech, notice how they combine physical gestures along with words to really get their point across. When you are trying to convince someone of your point, use an authoritative tone and convincing words and look them in the eye as you talk.”

Other Techniques

“Although verbal and physical techniques are the main techniques people use to be persuasive, there are other factors that play into how persuasive you are. Another way to be persuasive is using your personal appearance. Someone who is dressed in a suit and tie is more persuasive than someone in casual clothes because his appearance makes him look more credible. Your general stubbornness is also an attribute in being persuasive because if you refuse to give up, you are more likely to succeed in persuading someone of something.”

Persuasion isn’t an “all or nothing” endeavor either, it sometimes comes in stages and sometimes people will agree with you on one subject but not on another. The article mentions that your level of determination can be a factor as well as your confidence in yourself, this is very true. If you try a technique and it doesn’t work right away don’t lose confidence, project it! You’ll notice the difference in others reactions to you immediately and because covert hypnosis is only one form of persuasion, make sure you are aware of and integrating all possible and appropriate techniques for your purpose.

Have you begun using covert hypnosis techniques? What is holding you back?

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