Persuasion More Effective When You Use the “Unexpected” Message

Persuasion is more effective when you use the “unexpected message” and back it up with strong arguments. Why? People will listen and pay more attention to your message if you had and unexpected element to it. The problem is if you don’t deliver something worthwhile the persuasion is lost. Swaycraft Persuasion Techniques discusses the surprise element for effective persuasion.

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“In consumer research at least, experts can be more persuasive when they express uncertainty. Uncertainty works here because it is unexpected: we expect experts to be certain about their position because of their specialized knowledge and training.”

“Many authors suggest unexpectedness as one of the persuasion cornerstones. For example, Heath brothers make unexpectedness second element in their SUCCESs formula. (SUCCESs stands for Simple, Unexpected, Concrete, Credible, Emotional, Story – see their bestsellingMade to Stick).”

“Overall, this is solid advice. But it can also backfire.”

“Research indeed shows that in general unexpectedness boosts persuasion. The reason: unexpected message surprises your audience; they pay more attention; the more attention they pay the more likely it is that the message will sway them.”

“In essence, people are more likely to meditate on your message if it surprises them.

“But here is a critical requirement: your message must be supported by strong arguments. If not, your message will be ineffective or will even backfire because your audience will be more likely to spot any flaws.”

Sources:

  • Richard E. Petty, John T. Cacioppo, Rachel Goldman, “Personal Involvement as a Determinant of Argument-Based Persuasion,” Journal of Personality and Social Psychology, Vol. 41, 847-55 (1981).
  • Richard E. Petty and John T. Cacioppo, Communication and Persuasion: Central and Peripheral Routes to Persuasion (1986)
I know this works with children, I used to watch my kids’ pre-school teacher do this all the time. She was always prepared with a silly song or an unexpected detail, and it held the interest of most of the kids while she taught what she needed to. It’s works in advertising and relationships and business, persuasion is more effective when you use the unexpected message. 
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How To Hypnotize Instantly…Video

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The easiest way to hypnotize someone without them knowing it is through a method called covert conversational hypnosis. Using conversational hypnosis techniques you can put people in a profound eyes open state of trance just by talking in a certain way.

The art of conversational and covert hypnosis begins with the study of state control, rapport skills and moves on to the use of very specific 7 secret hypnotic language patterns that work on everyone hearing them.

This irresistible method of influence flies completely under the radar of most people, giving you the ability to literally cause people to fall in love with you, win arguments, close more sales  buy your products and services and lots more. 

So Stop for a moment and Imagine…

What would your life be like if you could simply walk up to someone and in just minutes have that person hanging on your every word and doing exactly what you say. Covert hypnosis is all about getting people to feel what you want sot that they naturally do what feels right to them.

What if you could ask someone about something they believe strongly, and in just a few minutes of talking have them believing exactly the opposite and even possibly condemning their old way of thinking.

Contrary to what most people believe conversational hypnosis is not hard to learn.

In fact if, you have the right teacher learning it is fast, easy and a whole lot of fun. When you are ready to learn hard-core, real world conversational hypnosis techniques I invite you to check one of My FREE 80 MInute Covert Hypnosis Audios.

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Black Hypnosis: The Dark Side of NLP& Hypnosis

NLP-Hypnosis and the Dark Side…

hypnosis is a naturally occurring state…

for the most part hypnotic trances are just random phenomenon that every human
experiences multiple times daily.

For the most part these states of mind come and go without our notice
and at random and by default.

But there are certain agencies that understand exactly how to use these
natural states to manipulate peoples minds. Making them believe things they
wouldn’t normally believe.

Buy things they wouldn’t normally by and of course not think about things they
should pay attention to.

Can you guess who these evil denizens of the black hypnosis underworld might
be?

no its not the CIA, or the MAFIA, or some Columbian drug cartel.

Its the Media.. advertising, government and a few chosen masters of the hidden
and secret art… expertly use these hidden black hypnosis NLP mind control
skills to make you do what they want and think its all your own idea.

They achieve this effect through a mechanism known as "CFB" or Critical Factor ByPass".

Most advertising is "designed" to automatically bypass your thinking mind and install what the
companies want you to think right into your unconscious mind.

Even the news is designed to trick you into believing that the reporters are completely
truthful and unbiased… The media knows exactly what they are doing.

Now a days you get as much "biased opinion"  ith your news as you do what appear to
be facts and data.

Its all rigged.

and the only true way to defend and protect yourself against it is to understand and
be aware of what is being done to you and how.

Forewarned is forearmed

 

David X.

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How To Hypnotize Women

How to Hypnotize Women

Hypnotizing women.

Imagine it for a moment.

Say the words a couple of times inside your mind.

I challenge you not to get even a little bit excited when you think about it. Hypnotizing women is by far one of most saught after yet often denied reasons many of us study hypnosis.

Unfortunately, (or maybe fortunately) most guys run straight into a brick wall of silence and lack of information when it comes to how to hypnotize women… at least outside of therapeutic context.

Most guys do NOT want to learn how to do therapeutic hypnosis with women…uh uh.

What they are looking for is a way to hypnotize women to do stuff. i.e.

  • find you  irresistibly  attractive
  • become sexually aroused.
  • go out with them… the list goes on.
  • Sometimes that list goes a little too “darkside” for my tastes.

But regardless of whether your desire to hypnotize women is strictly Jedi, or you have a little bit of Darth Floating around the simple truth is that women are amazingly easy to hypnotize if you go about it in the right way.

Fortunately, (Or maybe unfortunately) 
most guys have no clue how to hypnotize a women
.

And the simple truth is…

Women Are Easier To Hypnotize Than Men…

Well at least for the purposes of this article series they are.

I say that because the primary way most men go about hypnotizing women is through conversation, i.e. linguistic hypnosis.

And the good news is that as far as language goes…

Women are neurologically hardwired to process language more fully and strongly than the average man. That means Language (especially good solid hypnotic language) effects them more quickly, deeply and powerfully.

 
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