Learn Hypnosis: Seduction Secrets – The Secret Source of Most High Level Seduction Tactics

January 2, 2012 By Leave a Comment

 

By the way, How does this relate to hypnosis training?

Very Nicely Actually.

You see all seduction, all dating rituals, all “forms” of attraction are inherently hypnotic. The fact that we don’t “apply” the word or term “hypnosis” to it is irrelevant.

Seduction IS hypnosis.

Hypnosis IS a form of seduction.

I don’t make the rules I just report them.

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The owner has about 30 FREE Hypnosis Videos that he’s put together that you might want to check out. Some of them Are Really Good.

Others are just plain outstanding!

Now… On to our regularly scheduled hypnosis post.

There is a fundamental Rule of persuasion,

well actually it’s a fundamental rule that governs pretty much any form of human interaction.

The Things We Create Have The Most Power and Influence Over Us!

Seriously, this principle is so powerful and so pervasive, yet so completely overlooked, that it boggles my mind how easy it actually is to hypnotize people without them knowing by simply doing back to them what they are projecting at you.

This is why I spend so much time studying seduction materials...

They give us a true, real-world understanding of hypnotic principles and hypnotic operators that most people who, as bias of their “clinical” or “classical” training. Simply would not pay attention to.

The truth is the most seduction techniques are based in the courtship behaviors that “women” use to attract men to them in the first place.

Now the beautiful part for those interested in attracting the opposite sex, dating and seduction as well as for those looking for “less than sensual” applications of covert and conversational hypnosis is simply this.

Your subjects are most likely blissfully unaware that they are telling you exactly how to hypnotize them into doing what you want.  Just by the very act of how they treat you.

If, of course, you have enough “situational awareness” to recognize what is actually happening.

This all can be distilled back down to the NLP based principle of matching and mirroring and pacing and leading. Which are the primary tenets of most Ericksonian based hypnosis and NLP courses.

Unfortunately for our purposes. While the disciplines of NLP and Ericksonian hypnosis are wonderful for teaching us “about” the principles and of course giving them fancy names.

They don’t help us much out in the real world beyond basic therapy applications.

“yawn” … er I mean…  therapy is okay, but…

How does it really help me get money?

More Dates, etc.

Better Relationships, Even… Dare I say it…

More Sex?

If any of the above mentioned “basic human desires” sounded appealing I’d stay away from the more classical (and somewhat impractical) approaches to learning hypnosis and/or hypnosis training.

You are probably better off trying out something like David Van Arrick’s  S.T.E.A.L.T.H. Hypnosis

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If you are looking for hypnosis training and conversational hypnosis skills that work in the real world, that are fast, easy to use and fun to learn.

Check Out David’s new Site – I thought it was really cool… but then again. I’m a little biased.

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Propaganda and “The Bandwagon” Method of Persuasion

December 5, 2011 By Leave a Comment

Propaganda and the bandwagon method of persuasion are used all the time in advertising

Whenever it is necessary to get a crowd or group of people to join together for one purpose you may choose to use propaganda and “the bandwagon method of persuasion.”   This is not a new concept of course, the phrase bandwagon has been around a long time for a reason, it refers to a situation where others join or act  in unison with a group for a specific purpose. This method of persuasion is described in this short article found on Changing Minds. 

 

Make it appear that many people have joined the cause already, and that they are having lots of fun or getting significant advantage.

Show that those who join early will get the better prizes, such as positions of authority or other advantages.

Link it to morality and values, showing that those who join sooner are more moral and pretty much better people all around.

Make a loud noise. Use bright colors. Play a fanfare. Become impossible to miss. Be in-your-face until they join up.

Example

A political party holds a rally with much flag-waving and razz-a-ma-tazz.

A new religious group ensures all of its members attend services and become active participants in recruiting new members.

Discussion

The Bandwagon uses social evidence to legitimize itself and become attractive. It plays heavily on the need for belonging, making the group a desirable place to be. It may also use the scarcity principle, showing that it is better to join sooner or later.

The term ‘bandwagon’ came from the Temperance movement, where an open wagon would literally have a band on it and drive around town picking up drunks who would symbolically ‘get on the wagon’ of alcohol-free (and religious) living.

I think advertising uses this method very well. Just look at Apple. How many people really need all the beeps and whistles on the iPhone? Yet, consumers line up for hours just to say that they have it already,that they got it the opening day. I am mystified by this but it works everytime. Apple convinces people that they will sell out immediately and that the product will be impossible to find so that if they want to have the gadget of the moment they have to be there the first day. Clearly, propaganda and the “bandwagon method” of persuasion work like a charm. Genius.

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Let Me Introduce Propaganda to Covert Hypnosis

November 29, 2011 By Leave a Comment

Let me introduce propaganda to covert hypnosis and see what happens…Ooops, I think they are very familiar with each other already. In fact propaganda takes covert hypnosis to a much wider audience. On Changing Minds. org the discussion shows that the qualities that make propaganda so powerful, also make covert hypnosis just as powerful. Let me introduce propaganda to covert hypnosis and show you what is possible.

Newspapers and magazines are loaded with propaganda and advertising is another form of covert hypnosis.

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Propaganda is an evocative word that brings to mind images of dictatorships and wartime misinformation. Although not as widespread as conspiracy theorists might have us believe, it is still in use daily in virtually every country.”

The ideological goal

“The basic defining goal of propaganda is that it seeks to control what people believe – that is, the ideas they consider to be unquestionably true. Hence propaganda is about ideology, which may be political, religious, philosophical. In some senses, all ideologies use propaganda when they promote their ideas as being the only real truth and denigrate other belief systems as bad, evil or just plain wrong.”

The hidden quality

“Another defining quality of perfect propaganda is that it is hidden, such that the recipients perceive it and communications about it as a simple truth. The subject matter just becomes what is normal and the communicator of the message is not perceived as trying to persuade or manipulate.”

In brief, then, propaganda is covert persuasion of large groups of people.

“At the other end of the realization scale, if people perceive themselves as victims of manipulative machinations, then they will feel betrayed and hence rebel against the manipulator. This rebellion may be open or, if the manipulator has other power (such as military), then it may become subverted and covert.”

Basic conditions

“For propaganda to happen, there must be a person or persons in positions of power where they have significant control over mass-communication media. This can include presidents, governments and media moguls. At a smaller scale, it also includes company bosses, head teachers and parents.”

“The person in control must have a need either that a significant group of people believe something to be true or perceive something in some way.”

Many people fear the use of propaganda because they know the power it has to change the course of events. When propaganda is used for negative purposes it can lead to devastating consequences. However if a group of people can be convinced that something is beneficial and positive results occur then let me introduce propaganda to covert hypnosis and start motivating people and changing the future.

Share your thoughts and questions here…

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Persuasion is Like a Game of Follow the Leader

November 28, 2011 By Leave a Comment

Drew Stevens PhD writes in the Changing Minds.org that persuasion is like a game of follow the leader. Does he really mean it is as simple as that? All you need to do is take a good look around you and you will notice that anywhere or anything people are flocking to, has become a leader in it’s niche. Persuasion is like a game of follow the leader and the one with the most followers…wins!

“When you were a kid did you ever play follow the leader? Do you ever wonder why there are things that attract us to certain people? Buyers today become attracted with those that are not only contrary but offer value, substance, something the community can benefit from.”

“Think of this. When there is a new diet doesn’t most individuals tend to flock towards it? When there is a new television show, why is it that many need to view it? The reason there is some benefit statement, something of value that attracts us.”

Learn about leadership from team sports examples.

“For those entrepreneurs and practice professionals, gosh even selling professionals believe it or not – similar systems apply. Therefore it is important to build systems and support tools that allow you to create a universe that develops visibility and creates community.”

“Why because when you create, share and dispense valuable content you become the thought leader in your universe. This makes you invincible and gets others attracted. When this occurs you create a community that flocks to you while telling others of your value. Don’t believe?”

“Great examples include the incredible community of Facebook that does not advertise, the incredible activity of Apple retail stores – the busiest store in any US retail shopping mall and yes-even celebrities. Joe Paterno’s termination created a storm of activists. This is the incredible value of creating community, they surround you, they talk about you, and they protect you.”

So what are key methods for establishing visibility and community?

  1. Provide presentations to local community groups and present content congruent with your marketing message.
  2. Create a “meme” a marketing message that does not stereotype you but offers information based on your value. Email me and I will provide you a quick template to create a valuable meme.
  3. Get involved in local volunteer community programs so that your neighbors know you.
  4. Write tip sheets and articles in regional periodicals or those national periodicals for associations were you are a member or seek membership.
  5. Create alliances with others that allow you to build off of the others active network.
  6. Use a series of self-promotional integrated marketing messages that create shameless promotion on your services and value.
  7. Use the 4 to 1 referral system and achieve multiple referrals from every one person you meet.

“Just like the games when you were a child of follow the leader you must become the leader. You must build the connections, so that people follow you, believe in you and cannot move without you. When your community becomes your marketing department, you have a world you own and cannot achieve without your value.”

Persuasion is like a game of follow the leader and the strongest leader will usually have the most followers and followers means attention, traffic, opportunity, strength power and most importantly in this case; money.

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Language of Persuasion and Covert Hypnosis

November 21, 2011 By Leave a Comment

There is a distinct language of persuasion and covert hypnosis that an individual must master in order to become really comfortable with any hypnosis technique. Today’s article found on Slaw.ca on how to close more clients using persuasion, discusses mirroring and other anchoring techniques that speak the language of persuasion and covert hypnosis with every single word.

What is mirroring and how do you do without someone knowing?

“In his book, Influence, The Psychology of Persuasion, Robert B. Cialdini, Ph.D. discusses many factors that affect how persuasive you can be with others. Cialdini was also one of the authors of Yes! 50 Scientifically Proven Ways to Be Persuasive, co-authored by Noah J Goldstein and Steve J. Martin.”

“Lawyers can use these persuasive techniques to help them increase the percentage of inquiries or initial consultations that turn into paid client engagements.”

“People like people who are like themselves; they hire people that they know, like and trust. In your initial consultation, you need to build up the like and trust factors in order to increase the chances that the potential client will want to work with you by the end of the consultation.”

“In an earlier post, Who Are You Marketing To, I talked about clients being a reflection of you:”

“People do business with people they know, like and trust. Clients are attracted to people who, at least in some ways, resemble them. In order to trust someone, you must feel comfortable that the person you’re working with shares some of your values and goals. Identifying your individual values and what you stand for can help clarify the kinds of clients that you will work best with.”

“In other words, you can identify the kinds of clients you want to work with by understanding more about yourself. In the same way, expressing an understanding of who your clients or potential clients are and what their concerns are can help persuade clients to retain you. The authors of Yes! suggest that mirroring behavior plays upon the natural inclination to like those who are similar to you; reflecting the client’s words and body language can help you seal the deal.”

“I’ve talked about “speaking your clients’ language” before (most recently in the context of networking); instead of using legal jargon or words only lawyers use, use the words your clients use. Legalese and jargon create more distance between you and your audience.”

“If your goal is to demonstrate your expertise and show potential clients and referral sources that you understand their problems and can help them, you want them to feel like they know you and that you understand them and their problems.”

“Mirroring verbal language makes clients feel understood. It increases their positive feelings toward you and makes them more likely to decide to retain you to represent them. Matching the rate and volume at which you speak to your client and mirroring their body language can further reinforce those feelings of closeness and comfort, foster rapport and can also aid in your persuasiveness.”

“Don’t make sudden or drastic changes, but be cognizant of how the potential client speaks and their body language. Be careful not to mimic or copy the other person exactly or your efforts can backfire.”

“Mirroring may not work in situations where a client is anxious or overly excited – in that case, mirroring by repeating the client’s concerns back to them, making sure that they know they have been heard and understood, but consciously not mirroring their anxiety level or rate of speech may be more persuasive.”

“In those instances, you may be more persuasive by being more calm and reassuring, and you may even be able to get them to mirror you. When the potential client begins to mirror you, you’ll know you are well on your way to being in synch and signing a new client.”

There are so many ways to practice the art of mirroring and the more you practice of course, the sooner you will master it. Mirror with your family and friends. Try it out on people at work or when you go out. Practice it even for few seconds with a waitress or barber. You can practice the language of persuasion and covert hypnosis almost anywhere.

 

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